Ch\u00fang ta ng\u1ea1i n\u00f3i \u201ckh\u00f4ng\u201d trong t\u00ecnh y\u00eau v\u00ec s\u1ee3 l\u00e0m t\u1ed5n th\u01b0\u01a1ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c, s\u1ee3 b\u1ecb \u0111\u00e1nh gi\u00e1 \u00edch k\u1ef7, s\u1ee3 m\u1ea5t c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i v\u00e0 thi\u1ebfu k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng thi\u1ebft l\u1eadp ranh gi\u1edbi. Tuy nhi\u00ean, vi\u1ec7c kh\u00f4ng d\u00e1m t\u1eeb ch\u1ed1i r\u00f5 r\u00e0ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ebfn hi\u1ec3u l\u1ea7m, k\u00e9o d\u00e0i t\u1ed5n th\u01b0\u01a1ng v\u00e0 khi\u1ebfn m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 thi\u1ebfu minh b\u1ea1ch.<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n
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Theo nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u v\u1ec1 h\u00e0nh vi x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u00f4ng b\u1ed1 tr\u00ean Journal of Personality and Social Psychology, con ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 xu h\u01b0\u1edbng \u01b0u ti\u00ean vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn h\u01a1n l\u00e0 b\u1ea3o v\u1ec7 nhu c\u1ea7u c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n. \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y l\u00fd gi\u1ea3i v\u00ec sao nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ecdn im l\u1eb7ng thay v\u00ec t\u1eeb ch\u1ed1i.<\/p>\n
M\u1ed9t b\u00e1o c\u00e1o c\u1ee7a Psychology Today<\/a> ch\u1ec9 ra r\u1eb1ng vi\u1ec7c n\u00f3i \u201ckh\u00f4ng\u201d k\u00edch ho\u1ea1t c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c t\u1ed9i l\u1ed7i \u1edf nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u00ec h\u1ecd \u0111\u1ed3ng nh\u1ea5t s\u1ef1 t\u1eeb ch\u1ed1i v\u1edbi h\u00e0nh vi l\u00e0m t\u1ed5n th\u01b0\u01a1ng.<\/p>\n Trong t\u00ecnh y\u00eau, n\u1ed7i s\u1ee3 n\u00e0y c\u00e0ng m\u1ea1nh m\u1ebd h\u01a1n:<\/p>\n S\u1ee3 b\u1ecb g\u1eafn m\u00e1c l\u1ea1nh l\u00f9ng<\/p>\n<\/li>\n S\u1ee3 \u0111\u00e1nh m\u1ea5t t\u00ecnh b\u1ea1n<\/p>\n<\/li>\n S\u1ee3 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i kh\u00e1c<\/p>\n<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n Hullo l\u00e0 \u1ee9ng d\u1ee5ng mai m\u1ed1i gh\u00e9p \u0111\u00f4i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c h\u1ed7 tr\u1ee3 b\u1edfi AI, do Hullo Dating Co., Ltd. ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n. \u1ee8ng d\u1ee5ng s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng AI v\u00e0 Machine Learning \u0111\u1ec3 ph\u00e2n t\u00edch h\u00e0nh vi, th\u00f3i quen, s\u1edf th\u00edch, cung ho\u00e0ng \u0111\u1ea1o v\u00e0 v\u1ecb tr\u00ed nh\u1eb1m g\u1ee3i \u00fd k\u1ebft n\u1ed1i ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p. Kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 d\u1eebng \u1edf vi\u1ec7c vu\u1ed1t h\u1ed3 s\u01a1, Hullo t\u1eadp trung v\u00e0o s\u1ef1 minh b\u1ea1ch v\u00e0 ch\u00e2n th\u1eadt v\u1edbi t\u00ednh n\u0103ng First Voice nghe tr\u01b0\u1edbc gi\u1ecdng n\u00f3i, AI Bio Generator h\u1ed7 tr\u1ee3 t\u1ea1o h\u1ed3 s\u01a1 r\u00f5 r\u00e0ng v\u00e0 h\u1ec7 th\u1ed1ng xu linh ho\u1ea1t. Hullo ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi mu\u1ed1n h\u1eb9n h\u00f2 th\u00f4ng minh v\u00e0 thi\u1ebft l\u1eadp k\u1ef3 v\u1ecdng r\u00f5 r\u00e0ng ngay t\u1eeb \u0111\u1ea7u.<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n Trong m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng online, ghosting tr\u1edf n\u00ean ph\u1ed5 bi\u1ebfn m\u1ed9t ph\u1ea7n v\u00ec m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n \u0111\u1ed1i di\u1ec7n xung \u0111\u1ed9t. Theo kh\u1ea3o s\u00e1t c\u1ee7a Pew Research Center<\/a>, h\u01a1n m\u1ed9t n\u1eeda ng\u01b0\u1eddi d\u00f9ng \u1ee9ng d\u1ee5ng h\u1eb9n h\u00f2 t\u1eebng b\u1ecb ghosting.<\/p>\n N\u00e9 tr\u00e1nh xung \u0111\u1ed9t c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 mang l\u1ea1i c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c an to\u00e0n t\u1ea1m th\u1eddi, nh\u01b0ng v\u1ec1 l\u00e2u d\u00e0i l\u1ea1i g\u00e2y t\u1ed5n th\u01b0\u01a1ng nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n. Khi kh\u00f4ng n\u00f3i \u201ckh\u00f4ng\u201d r\u00f5 r\u00e0ng, b\u1ea1n v\u00f4 t\u00ecnh:<\/p>\n K\u00e9o d\u00e0i hy v\u1ecdng kh\u00f4ng th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf<\/p>\n<\/li>\n L\u00e0m \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u01b0\u01a1ng \u0111\u1ea7u t\u01b0 c\u1ea3m x\u00fac s\u00e2u h\u01a1n<\/p>\n<\/li>\n T\u1ef1 t\u1ea1o \u00e1p l\u1ef1c cho ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh<\/p>\n<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n \u0111ang g\u1eb7p kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n trong vi\u1ec7c di\u1ec5n \u0111\u1ea1t l\u1eddi t\u1eeb ch\u1ed1i, h\u00e3y tham kh\u1ea3o b\u00e0i vi\u1ebft C\u00e1ch t\u1eeb ch\u1ed1i l\u1eddi t\u1ecf t\u00ecnh c\u1ee7a con trai m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch kh\u00e9o l\u00e9o<\/a><\/strong> \u0111\u1ec3 hi\u1ec3u c\u00e1ch giao ti\u1ebfp r\u00f5 r\u00e0ng m\u00e0 v\u1eabn t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng.<\/p>\n M\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 d\u00f9 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 mu\u1ed1n v\u00ec suy ngh\u0129:<\/p>\n Bi\u1ebft \u0111\u00e2u sau n\u00e0y m\u00ecnh s\u1ebd th\u00edch h\u1ecd<\/p>\n<\/li>\n N\u1ebfu t\u1eeb ch\u1ed1i r\u1ed3i th\u00ec sao kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 ai kh\u00e1c<\/p>\n<\/li>\n C\u00f3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00edch m\u00ecnh l\u00e0 may m\u1eafn r\u1ed3i<\/p>\n<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n Theo nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u v\u1ec1 \u201cscarcity mindset\u201d \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u0103ng tr\u00ean Harvard Business Review, khi con ng\u01b0\u1eddi tin r\u1eb1ng c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i khan hi\u1ebfm, h\u1ecd c\u00f3 xu h\u01b0\u1edbng ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn nh\u1eefng l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn kh\u00f4ng ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p.<\/p>\n Trong t\u00ecnh y\u00eau, t\u01b0 duy n\u00e0y d\u1ec5 d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ebfn c\u00e1c m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 thi\u1ebfu c\u00e2n b\u1eb1ng.<\/p>\n N\u00f3i \u201ckh\u00f4ng\u201d kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t c\u00e2u tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi m\u00e0 l\u00e0 k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng. Ti\u1ebfn s\u0129 Bren\u00e9 Brown t\u1eebng nh\u1ea5n m\u1ea1nh r\u1eb1ng ranh gi\u1edbi r\u00f5 r\u00e0ng l\u00e0 n\u1ec1n t\u1ea3ng c\u1ee7a s\u1ef1 t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng.<\/p>\n Thi\u1ebfu ranh gi\u1edbi c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 khi\u1ebfn b\u1ea1n:<\/p>\n \u0110\u1ed3ng \u00fd \u0111i\u1ec1u m\u00ecnh kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n<\/p>\n<\/li>\n C\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y m\u1ec7t m\u1ecfi trong m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7<\/p>\n<\/li>\n T\u00edch t\u1ee5 b\u1ee9c x\u00fac<\/p>\n<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n Ng\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ea1i, ng\u01b0\u1eddi bi\u1ebft n\u00f3i \u201ckh\u00f4ng\u201d \u0111\u00fang l\u00fac th\u01b0\u1eddng x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 l\u00e0nh m\u1ea1nh v\u00e0 c\u00e2n b\u1eb1ng h\u01a1n.<\/p>\n M\u1ed9t ph\u1ea7n kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n trong vi\u1ec7c t\u1eeb ch\u1ed1i \u0111\u1ebfn t\u1eeb vi\u1ec7c hai b\u00ean kh\u00f4ng r\u00f5 k\u1ef3 v\u1ecdng ngay t\u1eeb \u0111\u1ea7u. Khi h\u1ed3 s\u01a1 m\u1eadp m\u1edd, \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u01b0\u01a1ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec3u sai mong mu\u1ed1n c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n.<\/p>\n Hullo s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng AI \u0111\u1ec3 ph\u00e2n t\u00edch h\u00e0nh vi v\u00e0 g\u1ee3i \u00fd k\u1ebft n\u1ed1i d\u1ef1a tr\u00ean m\u1ee9c \u0111\u1ed9 t\u01b0\u01a1ng th\u00edch th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf. Khi k\u1ef3 v\u1ecdng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n r\u00f5 r\u00e0ng, b\u1ea1n \u00edt ph\u1ea3i n\u00f3i \u201ckh\u00f4ng\u201d h\u01a1n.<\/p>\n Tr\u1ea3i nghi\u1ec7m h\u1eb9n h\u00f2 th\u00f4ng minh v\u00e0 thi\u1ebft l\u1eadp ranh gi\u1edbi r\u00f5 r\u00e0ng c\u00f9ng Hullo t\u1ea1i hullo.dating<\/a><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n M\u1ed9t h\u1ed3 s\u01a1 r\u00f5 r\u00e0ng gi\u00fap gi\u1ea3m hi\u1ec3u l\u1ea7m v\u00e0 h\u1ea1n ch\u1ebf t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng ph\u1ea3i t\u1eeb ch\u1ed1i sau khi \u0111\u00e3 tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n l\u00e2u.<\/p>\n AI Bio Generator c\u1ee7a Hullo h\u1ed7 tr\u1ee3 b\u1ea1n th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n r\u00f5:<\/p>\n M\u1ee5c ti\u00eau h\u1eb9n h\u00f2<\/p>\n<\/li>\n Gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n<\/p>\n<\/li>\n Ranh gi\u1edbi mong mu\u1ed1n<\/p>\n<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n
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