{"id":2131,"date":"2024-05-29T15:39:15","date_gmt":"2024-05-29T15:39:15","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/blog.hullo.dating\/?p=2131"},"modified":"2024-05-29T15:39:15","modified_gmt":"2024-05-29T15:39:15","slug":"define-the-relationship-dtr-xac-dinh-tinh-trang-moi-quan-he","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/blog.hullo.dating\/vi\/define-the-relationship-dtr-xac-dinh-tinh-trang-moi-quan-he\/","title":{"rendered":"Define the Relationship (DTR): X\u00e1c \u0110\u1ecbnh T\u00ecnh Tr\u1ea1ng M\u1ed1i Quan H\u1ec7"},"content":{"rendered":"

Define the Relationship l\u00e0 g\u00ec?<\/h3>\n

Trong th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi h\u1eb9n h\u00f2 v\u00e0 c\u00e1c m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m, m\u1ed9t trong nh\u1eefng cu\u1ed9c tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n quan tr\u1ecdng nh\u1ea5t m\u00e0 c\u00e1c c\u1eb7p \u0111\u00f4i th\u01b0\u1eddng ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u1ed1i m\u1eb7t l\u00e0 “define the relationship” (DTR)<\/strong>. V\u1eady DTR th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 l\u00e0 g\u00ec v\u00e0 t\u1ea1i sao n\u00f3 l\u1ea1i quan tr\u1ecdng \u0111\u1ebfn v\u1eady trong vi\u1ec7c x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng m\u1ed9t m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 r\u00f5 r\u00e0ng v\u00e0 b\u1ec1n v\u1eefng? H\u00e3y c\u00f9ng Hullo t\u00ecm hi\u1ec3u chi ti\u1ebft nh\u00e9.<\/p>\n

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Define the Relationship<\/strong> (DTR) l\u00e0 cu\u1ed9c tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n gi\u1eefa hai ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111ang h\u1eb9n h\u00f2 ho\u1eb7c c\u00f3 m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m nh\u1eb1m x\u00e1c \u0111\u1ecbnh t\u00ecnh tr\u1ea1ng c\u1ee7a m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7. \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 l\u00fac hai b\u00ean th\u1ea3o lu\u1eadn v\u1ec1 m\u1ee9c \u0111\u1ed9 cam k\u1ebft, mong mu\u1ed1n v\u00e0 k\u1ef3 v\u1ecdng c\u1ee7a nhau, t\u1eeb \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0a ra quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh v\u1ec1 h\u01b0\u1edbng \u0111i c\u1ee7a m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7. Cu\u1ed9c tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n DTR gi\u00fap c\u1ea3 hai hi\u1ec3u r\u00f5 h\u01a1n v\u1ec1 t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m v\u00e0 \u00fd \u0111\u1ecbnh c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u01b0\u01a1ng, t\u1eeb \u0111\u00f3 tr\u00e1nh \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eefng hi\u1ec3u l\u1ea7m v\u00e0 b\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ed3ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 x\u1ea3y ra.<\/p>\n

T\u1ea1i sao Define the Relationship quan tr\u1ecdng?<\/h3>\n

Cu\u1ed9c tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n DTR \u0111\u00f3ng vai tr\u00f2 quan tr\u1ecdng trong vi\u1ec7c x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng v\u00e0 duy tr\u00ec m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m v\u00ec nhi\u1ec1u l\u00fd do:<\/p>\n

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  1. S\u1ef1 r\u00f5 r\u00e0ng v\u00e0 minh b\u1ea1ch:<\/strong> DTR gi\u00fap x\u00e1c \u0111\u1ecbnh r\u00f5 r\u00e0ng t\u00ecnh tr\u1ea1ng m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7, tr\u00e1nh nh\u1eefng hi\u1ec3u l\u1ea7m v\u00e0 m\u00e2u thu\u1eabn v\u1ec1 mong mu\u1ed1n v\u00e0 k\u1ef3 v\u1ecdng c\u1ee7a m\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi.<\/li>\n
  2. T\u1ea1o s\u1ef1 cam k\u1ebft:<\/strong> Cu\u1ed9c tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n DTR l\u00e0 c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i \u0111\u1ec3 hai ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n s\u1ef1 cam k\u1ebft v\u00e0 l\u00f2ng trung th\u00e0nh, t\u1eeb \u0111\u00f3 t\u1ea1o n\u1ec1n t\u1ea3ng v\u1eefng ch\u1eafc cho m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7.<\/li>\n
  3. X\u00e1c \u0111\u1ecbnh m\u1ee5c ti\u00eau chung:<\/strong> Th\u1ea3o lu\u1eadn v\u1ec1 t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai v\u00e0 m\u1ee5c ti\u00eau chung gi\u00fap c\u1ea3 hai c\u00f9ng h\u01b0\u1edbng \u0111\u1ebfn m\u1ed9t m\u1ee5c ti\u00eau r\u00f5 r\u00e0ng, t\u0103ng c\u01b0\u1eddng s\u1ef1 g\u1eafn k\u1ebft v\u00e0 h\u1ee3p t\u00e1c.<\/li>\n
  4. Gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft lo l\u1eafng:<\/strong> DTR gi\u00fap gi\u1ea3i t\u1ecfa nh\u1eefng lo l\u1eafng v\u00e0 nghi ng\u1edd v\u1ec1 t\u00ecnh tr\u1ea1ng m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7, t\u1ea1o c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c an to\u00e0n v\u00e0 y\u00ean t\u00e2m cho c\u1ea3 hai b\u00ean.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

    Khi n\u00e0o n\u00ean th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n Define the Relationship?<\/h3>\n

    Kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 th\u1eddi \u0111i\u1ec3m c\u1ee5 th\u1ec3 n\u00e0o l\u00e0 “chu\u1ea9n” \u0111\u1ec3 th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n DTR, nh\u01b0ng d\u01b0\u1edbi \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng m\u00e0 cu\u1ed9c tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n n\u00e0y c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 tr\u1edf n\u00ean c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft:<\/p>\n

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    1. Khi m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 tr\u1edf n\u00ean nghi\u00eam t\u00fac:<\/strong> Khi c\u1ea3 hai c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 \u0111\u00e3 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n \u0111\u1ebfn m\u1ed9t m\u1ee9c \u0111\u1ed9 nghi\u00eam t\u00fac v\u00e0 mu\u1ed1n x\u00e1c \u0111\u1ecbnh t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai.<\/li>\n
    2. Khi c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 thay \u0111\u1ed5i l\u1edbn:<\/strong> N\u1ebfu m\u1ed9t trong hai ng\u01b0\u1eddi chu\u1ea9n b\u1ecb \u0111\u1ed1i m\u1eb7t v\u1edbi m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 thay \u0111\u1ed5i l\u1edbn trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng (nh\u01b0 chuy\u1ec3n nh\u00e0, thay \u0111\u1ed5i c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c), DTR c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 gi\u00fap x\u00e1c \u0111\u1ecbnh vai tr\u00f2 c\u1ee7a m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 trong t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai.<\/li>\n
    3. Khi c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 kh\u00f4ng r\u00f5 r\u00e0ng:<\/strong> N\u1ebfu m\u1ed9t trong hai c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y kh\u00f4ng r\u00f5 r\u00e0ng v\u1ec1 t\u00ecnh tr\u1ea1ng m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 v\u00e0 mong mu\u1ed1n c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 minh b\u1ea1ch h\u01a1n.<\/li>\n
    4. Khi c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 nghi ng\u1edd:<\/strong> N\u1ebfu xu\u1ea5t hi\u1ec7n nh\u1eefng nghi ng\u1edd v\u1ec1 s\u1ef1 trung th\u1ef1c ho\u1eb7c cam k\u1ebft c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u01b0\u01a1ng, DTR c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 gi\u00fap gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft nh\u1eefng lo l\u1eafng n\u00e0y.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

      V\u00ed d\u1ee5 v\u1ec1 Define the Relationship<\/h3>\n

      \u0110\u1ec3 minh h\u1ecda r\u00f5 h\u01a1n v\u1ec1 cu\u1ed9c tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n DTR, h\u00e3y xem x\u00e9t m\u1ed9t v\u00ed d\u1ee5 c\u1ee5 th\u1ec3:<\/p>\n